Life's Crappy Moments...Get Over It!

The past couple of days have been full of drama.  Unnecessary drama.  I find it so funny that some people would rather blame others for their own actions instead of accepting responsibility for the crap they do.  Everything we do in life has consequences and part of being an adult is accepting those consequences when they come.  How can you claim to be "grown" when your actions prove otherwise?  For example, when you treat someone like a slave, constantly putting them down, making promises you never intend to keep, and just being an overall crappy "friend," how can you be surprised when that person finally decides to put you out of their life?  You can't.  And yet, the situation that a friend of mine has found herself in is exactly that.  But I guess that's what happens when people refuse to grow up.

I guess the whole point of this post is that I'm so glad that I have finally learned to distance myself from people who have nothing better to do than make others miserable.  I want to enjoy the time that I have with the people that I love.  I don't want all of that negativity in my life and I certainly don't want it in my child's life.  To all those people who truly know me, I'm not one to bite my tongue or hold back when you ask my for my opinion.  I'm very straightforward and I find no reason to sugar coat anything.  I don't try to hurt people's feelings with my words, but there are times in life when being sweet just doesn't work.  Sometimes you just have to life with life's crappy moments.  Accept them.  Embrace them.  And then move past them.  Because there are better things in life than holding grudges and acting out of anger and hatred.